My primary job for almost 10 years in Corporate America was financial counseling.  Through the years of working with families, it became abundantly clear to me that no matter the age or income, if you were never taught how to manage money, budget, obtain credit, then you simply never learn.  I want to take an opportunity to share with you a few tips on how to manage your credit score. 

First things first, why is it important?  Many young college students have ruined their credit early in life, not realizing its significance.  Did you realize that your credit score can impact your future employment?  Many employers pull CBRs (credit bureau reports) to determine a potential employee’s integrity.  Homeownership (or the lack thereof) is significantly impacted by one’s credit history.  Certain employers require “bonding” which is specific to the financial field — but again, cannot happen with poor credit history.  These are just a few of the many, many reasons why understanding and maintaing your credit is crucial.

  • Too many credit checks, also known as inquiries, negatively impacts your score.  When shopping for a car, house, or credit card, it is important that you do not allow excessive numbers of pulls on your report.  Less is best.
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A few weeks ago, I received an exciting email.  My idea had been named a finalist in the Mother of All Ideas Contest!  What an honor!  So….what was my idea and why would it interest you?  I proposed a national plan to begin to help single moms get connected all across the country via church and non-profit single parent support groups.  This is a project I have been working on for some time and have helped to launch more than 100 single mom support groups in churches across the world.  But the work is not complete.  There are millions of single moms still not connected, still desiring friendships and support. 

Since the majority who read my articles at Single Parents Town are, in fact, single parents,   I want to enlist your help.  The winner is named based on the most votes.  You can only vote once per day per person.  If my idea wins (based on votes alone), then I am donating the entire prize back to the single moms I work with!  I truly, truly want to bless these women.  I want to help raise awareness of the issues facing single parents today, as the winning idea will be posted in several places.

Please take 5 seconds and vote.  Set a reminder on your phone to do it every day through September 1, 2011, and share the word with friends.  Help me bless single moms! Continue reading »

 

I had the pleasure of making the acquaintance of Julia Espey recently and learned about her book, “If I Were Your Daddy, This is What You’d Learn.”  The title is so intriguing I could not wait to get my hands on a copy.   I have had the opportunity now to review Julia’s book and all I can say is “Awesome, Relevant, and Useful!” 

Single moms, the most difficult part of being a single mom is the worry that comes with hoping your child does not lack certain skills due to the lack of a father in their lives.  As a fellow author, I am in awe of the amount of research Julia put forth in finding quality fathers who can provide a glimpse into their experiences as fathers.  While I may not necessarily agree with every piece of the  fathers’ advice in the book, I can appreciate their love for their children, which is so apparent.   I especially love the “Reaching Higher” part of the book, where she highlights Habitat for Humanity CEO, Jonathan Reckford, and others, as they share about the importance of serving others and serving God. 

I was on Julia’s radio show recently “Single Mom Talk”.  Check it out. Continue reading »

 

  I’m gonna take you back today.  One of my all-time favorite songs is “Man in the Mirror” by Michael Jackson.  I cannot listen to that song without crying.  Michael Jackson died on my birthday a few years ago, and I remember spending the day watching endless Michael Jackson videos — partly sad that he had passed away and partly reminiscing about years gone by, what I was doing when I first heard this song or that one.  The song is so beautifully written. I love the message. 

 Here, take a listen:

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Sometimes life is so busy, so stressful, and so overwhelming that having a conversation with a 4-year-old is an absolute necessity.  Each of my children bring great joy to my life and my love for them is as unique and different as they are.  But, I honestly must say that I did not have the time or maturity to really enjoy my children in their younger years, until the third time around….and my youngest one is hilarious!  I thought you may enjoy hearing some of our random conversations.

“Momma, can I have a twin, pleeezzzeee?!” Continue reading »

 

It seems like only yesterday when I sat down to pen this book.  I labored over every word.  What could I say that would accurately portray to others how I felt as a young single mom?  How would I write about the single moms that I have worked with, how they have felt? What words could I use?  How do you feel the hurt of a divorcee, if you have never been there? 

It is with great excitement that we announce – it is here.  Today is the pre-release of my latest book!

After much love, prayer, and sacrifice, we are bringing to you the highly-anticipated new book, The Church and the Single Mom by Jennifer Barnes Maggio.  And it already has people talking.  Many people feel that because they have not been a single parent that single parenting does not affect them.  Wrong!  I did a great deal of research of how single parenting affects us all and what we can do to get active.  Many single moms were gracious enough to share their story and I am elated to bring this necessary book to you.  Continue reading »

 

Woohoo!!!! School’s out! School’s out!  I am probably more excited than my kids. No more homework. No more fussing about tests.  No more sitting in endless car lines.  Summer is here.  Enjoy. Enjoy.  The weather is hot.  The pool is cool  And we…….are enjoying some time off!

Single parents, make it a point to enjoy some time off with your kids.  Maybe vacationing is not in your budget, but a vacation-at-home sure can be.  Choose to turn off  your cell phones, televisions, and game stations for a weekend.  Take long walks at your local park or in your neighborhood.  Make a craft.  Start a scrapbook.  Spend time with your children.  Get to know them in a new way.  Make every second count.  It all passes too quickly. Continue reading »