Women and “sisterhood” are not always synonomous. Sadly, women can often be categorized as “catty”, “messy”, or “hen-pecks”. Before we, as women, can learn to arise and awaken our spirits to be all God has called us to be — the best moms, the best friends, the best workers — we must first learn to embrace sisterhood.

For far too long, women have spent meaningless, wasted time bickering, name-calling, and pursuing personal I-gotta-always-be-right vendettas. Once we let all that go, we learn to come alongside one another. The truth is, it is sometimes far easier to talk about the ugly outfit the girl next to you is wearing than it is to address the ugly on the inside of us.

Caution: Stop comparing yourself to others. It only births insecurities that make it almost impossible for you befriend others. You were created perfectly for what you have been put on this earth to do. As you cease comparison, you enter a place of complete peace, where you then can build meaningful relationships with other women. Continue reading »

 

We have all heard, “When life throws you lemons, make lemonade.”  But how do you do that?  Parenting struggles, money woes, or business concerns will surely rear their ugly head from time to time. 

As I embark upon those difficult tasks of parenting or managing money (or any of the dozens of other things we all face), I try to be positive, asking myself questions such as, “What can I learn from this?”  or “How will this make me better?” I have learned that my negative attitude towards the situation does nothing to improve it.  And in the process, I’ve learned to make lemonade.

Here’s what I’ve learned about making lemonade: Continue reading »

 

Here we are……2012!  Happy New Year!  I have recently taken off a couple of weeks, just to spend time with family, enjoy the holidays, and take care of personal business.  It was a much-needed break. 

The new year is always an exciting time.  Even though December 31 comes and goes just like any other day, there is something quite exhilirating about knowing that you are starting a new year – a new season, a fresh start.  That’s what January is.  It is that time when we make New Year’s Resolutions about our lives and how this year will be better than any of the others. 

I know we are just past the official first day of the year, but let me encourage you with this: Continue reading »

 

May God richly bless your family during this holiday season. May it be a time to enjoy your special family, whatever its size or content.  May you remember the true reason for the season.  Make it a point drive around and stare a little too long at some Christmas lights, sipping hot cocoa.  Read the Christmas story to your kids Christmas morning, no matter their age.  Concentrate on what you have, not what you don’t.  And………may peace be with you! Merry Christmas, sweet friends!

Jennifer Maggio is a sought-after speaker, critically-acclaimed author, and founder of The Life of a Single Mom Ministries.  She has been featured on more than 100 radio and television shows and has a heart to see single mothers living the life God intended.  She specializes in helping churches form or grow their single mom ministries.  For more information, visit http://www.thelifeofasinglemom.com. Continue reading »

 

 I’ve been writing at Single Parents Town for over a year now and this article has received the most hits, by far.  Since I vehemently believe every word of it, I thought I’d finish up 2011 with it. Here goes:

Yep, I’m going there.  There’s no sense in pretending the subject does not exist, so…  buckle up. 

I recently came across a website that INFURIATED me.  In fact, that is probably a serious understatement.  Since my life’s passion is single moms, I am always researching single parent topics.  I happened upon an article regarding sex and singles.  I would not dare give you the name of the site, because I will not give them the satisfaction of multiple hits.  But here is what the meat of the article said, loosely translated, Continue reading »

 

My mother was killed very unexpectedly when I was only a year old.  It was a Sunday morning and she loaded me into our car to head for church, as she had many mornings prior.  She sang and played piano, so I am sure we were headed out early.  She drove down our long driveway and into the street.  She proceeded less than a mile down our street and BAM! — a drunk teenage driver hit our car, knocking us into a tree.  She was killed instantly.

It is a sad story, I know, but because I never knew her, I never really mourned her death.  I did hear stories about her through the years and learned of her personality (much of which I am similar, I hear).  I have often wondered what life would have been like if she would have been around.  I am convinced she would have taught me three things:

1.  You are beautiful.  Mothers just know that.  They know their daughters are beautiful and they do not hesitate to tell them.  I never heard that as a child.  Continue reading »

 

Last week, I shared 5 tips on how to save money in your home.   Based on the positive response, I wanted to give you 5 more that I have found to be helpful.  I did financial counseling for 10 years in Corporate America and learned a great deal of proper money management.  What’s more, I walked away from a six-figure salary to walk into full-time volunteering a few years ago and had to become quite creative on how to make ends meet, until my business launched.  Here’s what I learned:

  1. Take advantage of coupons and rebates.  Couponing alone could become a full-time job and most of us do not have that type of time to dedicate to the task.  However, if you make even a minimal effort to research what grocery and discount stores in your area are running special coupon programs, you can literally save $100′s every month.  It is well worth an hour of your time per week.
  2. Learn about “Kids Eat Free” specials.  There are websites in almost every community that broadcast the daily kids-eat-free restaurants.  If you are going to eat out anyway, why not find the places that will allow you bring children for free? 
  3. Learn the art of the Crockpot Meal.  Admittedly, I have never been a great fan of cooking and only did so out of necessity.  I ate out quite a bit when my kids were younger and I am certain that I fed them far too many beanie-weenies.  A few years back, I dug out my slow-cooker from under the cabinet and committed to learn recipes.  There are hundreds of recipes to cook almost any kind of meat.  The neat thing is this — not only are you feeding your family a healthier meal and a significantly lower cost than eating out, it is an easy way to have a warm family meal together.
  4. Buy only used automobiles.  This is necessity.  Brand-new cars lose their value almost immediately.  Yet, we often pay for them for years.  Cars are made so efficiently today that almost any car is certain to last for years.  Purchase a car that is at least 24-36 months old and save dramatically on purchase price.
  5. Drive slower.  Simply but very true.  Faster speeds burn more gas.  With gas prices sky-rocketing upwards of $4.00 per gallon, you can save hundreds annually by simply going 5 miles slower per hour. 
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