I see life as a cake. I see self love as the decoration we choose to put on the cake.
Goofy analogy I know, but play along for just a minute.
We all are baked cakes. We are here…we are living…waiting to be decorated.
Decorating is the ultimate responsibility. Continue reading »
Is your life like a carpet or granite counter top?
I know you are probably thinking….What?
Funny analogy I know but keep reading and it will make perfect sense.
One day I was having a challenge and I realized it was a challenge that I think was cleaned up but here it is again. I think it is cleaned up but it shows up again. Just like a darn carpet stain. We spend hundreds of dollars to hire someone to get those pesky stains out of our beautiful carpet so our home looks beautiful again thinking….yay…that stain is gone forever!
Wrong!
I know for me it is often stains I don’t even recall causing but they are there staring up at me as I walk through the family room or up the stairs. I know for me I ask, “what are these stains and where the heck did they come from?” Continue reading »
As I sat down to write this blog, I knew what I wanted to write about but I was struggling with how to write it – how to get the message across. I thought of a few different examples to throw out. I even started one version with asking questions. Nothing felt right until I decided to just get straight to it. No soft interlude needed. The question just needs to be asked.
Here it is…
DO YOU THINK YOUR EX TREATS HIS/HER NEW PARTNER BETTER THAN HE/SHE TREATED YOU? Continue reading »
Last night I was at a great birthday party in Del Mar. I started chatting with a gal (her name is Jen) in our group and the coincidences started pouring out.
We are both from Illinois and grew up about an hour away from each other.
We both went to Western Illinois University. Continue reading »
Do you know anyone who sees life this way?
The glass is half empty.
Nothing is ever good enough.
People are out to get them.
Bad things are only happening to them. Continue reading »
How many times did you lie today whether it be a white lie or a big one to get through a situation?
How many times were you afraid to tell someone what you wanted or how you felt?
We all might do it more than we realize.
And the only reason I can think that we do it is because… Continue reading »
I wrote this blog last year and it seems to still hold true. Things are still changing, rearranging, and thankfully getting better by the day.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NlfGNZTOozs Continue reading »
