We’re on a journey together, you and I. Life is all about the journey. Today, as I thought about what to write, through tears, I realized that today’s post would just have to be about my journey, about where I am, right now. I couldn’t give today— no advice, no wisdom, no wit. Not today……. Albeit random, here goes.
Today is filled with great emotion for me. As you read this, I am in attendance at yet a 5th funeral in 5 weeks! It’s unheard of. Five people that I know personally– that I had relationships with, friends, family – have gone on to be with the Lord. I wrote about two of those deaths ”Are You Living a Life Worth Celebrating?” at http://www.singleparentstown.com/blog/2010/10/13/jennifer/are-you-living-a-life-worth-celebrating/.
The most recent passing, last Sunday, of a 22-year-old who was killed at our church Sunday morning, has been so traumatic, so hard. Yet, his life truly was a life worth celebrating. Read about Jordan at http://www.wafb.com/Global/story.asp?S=13459299.
I don’t take lightly when I speak, write, or interview. I really don’t. I am in prayer and deep thought EVERY week about what to write. My hope is that when you leave one of my articles, you leave challenged, inspired, or blessed— period. If ONE person reads it and their life is changed, or they even can be encouraged to make it through the day, then the time and effort put in is well worth it!
Although we’ve experienced great tragedy this month, we’ve also experienced great joy. The two men in my life had birthdays this week.
Both of these men entered my life by surprise. My handsome 15 year-old-son entered completely by surprise, yet I look at him, 15 years later, and could not be more proud, more honored to have him as my son. He is a gifted athlete of both basketball and football, honor roll student, and all-around funny guy— quite handsome too! It doesn’t seem right that he will be driving me around in a few days and that only a couple of years from now, he will be away at college.
My husband also entered my life by surprise. I had given up on love. I was beaten down by love. I wasn’t looking for anything new and that’s exactly where I found him. He has been a blessing in my life ever since and I love him just as much today as I did eight years ago when we married! He melts my heart and has brought me great happiness.
So……….although today, I am quite sad, as I reflect on all the lives we’ve lost, I am also filled with joy and expectation of our futures together. I’m happy that I get to continue to do life with my family, and treasure each and every day.
Jennifer Barnes Maggio is a highly-acclaimed author, speaker, and columnist. Her new book, Overwhelmed: The Life of a Single Mom, is selling out in bookstores everywhere as it leaves audiences riveted, encouraged, and challenged. She is considered one of the nation’s leading experts on single parent issues, and has been featured on countless programs, websites, and magazines, including Power Women, The Mike & Carrie Morning Show, The Carolyn Gable Show and more. For more information, visit http://www.thelifeofasinglemom.com.
You are also an answer to my prayers, baby, I love you!
Jennifer – great thoughts and my heart goes out to you through all these losses. I know loss well and it is so important to hold every moment precious and all those love. You are always a light in all that you share!