I recently read an article by Lisa Belkin that I thought was very interesting and a sign of the times. The article chronicles the pendulum swing in society with regards to fathers getting primary custody of  children in divorce. Now many of you would think that as a full-time Dad I would be happy about this. I am not. I believe that all children need both parents in their lives. I also believe that they need their parents an equal amount of time. I do not buy the argument that because one parent works more than the other they should not have as much custody. I believe that if given the chance loving and involved parents would find the time to be with their children. I am proof that as a full-time single dad you can make it work if you are willing to sacrifice the little things in order to gain the big rewards.

I have copied the article below so that you can make your own decision. I would love to get your feedback so fell free to comment below or email me at bill@singledadstown.com Either way never forget that LOVE is spelt TIME….

More Fathers Are Getting Custody in Divorce Continue reading »

 

I am a list keeper. I have a work list, a to-do list, and a big, $$, annoying list of things I have to do as I blogged herethe other day. Sometimes I fret that I won’t get it all done, or I will make the wrong decision, or that I will not have the money to get it all done. So I take it slow and babystep my way. I take breaks when I am overloaded.

On a break yesterday when I ate lunch, I flipped through an old issue of Body & Soul (December 2009) and I stumbled upon this quote:

“I continually remind myself that the best gift I can give my loved one is to be patient, relaxed, and positive–even during the busiest times. This is particularly important for my children, but everyone can benefit from this gift. I’m not perfect, but remembering that my attitude afftect others really helps,” wrote Melinda Welsh. Continue reading »