Do women find men who like babies more alluring?
By Tracy | January 27, 2010
One of the sights I see that fills my heart with so much joy, adoration and respect is when I see a single dad lovingly embracing his kid(s) or playing with them and truly having fun, showing a moment of tenderness and vulnerability or lighting up when he talks about them. I find it WAY hotter to see a man walking with a baby strapped to his chest proudly displaying his handiwork then one flashing his pearly whites while driving his Ferrari. There is just something about seeing a man with a kid that makes most of us chicks melt like butta. Why is that?
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I know for me, even though Paris’s father and I aren’t together anymore, I still feel a little tingle when he tells me that he blow dries and brushes her hair and takes great pride in the coif he creates. I love seeing the smile he gets on his face when he is humored by her. That activates loving feelings in me. And when he plays with her in the roughhouse way men play with their kids, I feel so fortunate that Paris was blessed with a Dad that loves her so much.
All of these qualities are incredibly attractive to women. Men, don’t underestimate this. Here’s a little trick fellas. If you are with a group of friends and there happens to be a lady there whose attention you want to get, if there are any kids running around, start playing with them and make sure she sees you. There’s a good chance you will stand out as very different then the other bachelors there. Now of course, you need to be careful that you aren’t attempting to attract a woman who is just out to find a baby making machine and will start pulling all that crazy chick stuff that all you guys fear. Did you watch the last episode of the Bachelor? OMG! Some of these girls are why guys can get so freaked out by us. But if you don’t see that insane as soon as I get you alone I’m going to start showing you the cute outfits I already have picked out look in her eyes, showing your not so macho side by interacting with a child will help to lower her defenses and increase your chances of being able to walk up to her without her wall going up.
It could also work the opposite way. I have found in a few cases that some men are totally turned on by the fact that I’m a mom. And yet, there are some of those guys who want nothing to do with a woman who has kids. Like many of us single parents, I have feared that having a kid is getting in my way of attracting a committed partner. But lately, I’ve been looking at it more like a man would be lucky to also have Paris in his life because she is such a rockin little kid and would be a blessing to his life. And if he doesn’t feel that way, then he’s not meant to be in the first place and I refuse to allow someone into her life that won’t love, appreciate and feel totally lucky to have her as part of the deal.
I think I’m going to start a new trend. Parties where all the men have to wear Baby Bjorn’s stuffed with little cherubs, while wearing tuxedos and cooking us dinner. What do you think ladies?
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January 27th, 2010 at 7:55 pm
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